Quran dating before marriage
The choice of a marriage partner is one of the most important decisions a person will make in his or her lifetime.It should be taken as seriously as any other major decision in life - with prayer, careful investigation, and family involvement.First of all, Muslim youth develop very close friendships with their same-sex peers.This "sisterhood" or "brotherhood" that develops when they are young continues throughout their lives, and serves as a network to become familiar with other families.which consider celibacy or monasticism as a great virtue and a means of salvation, Islam considers marriage as one of the most virtuous and approved institutions.The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) declared, "There is no monasticism in Islam." He further ordained, "O you young men!Rather, in Islamic culture, pre-marital relationships of any kind between members of the opposite sex is forbidden.
Marriage in Islam has aspects of both 'Ibadah (worship) of Allah and mu'amalah (transactions between human beings).
It is Islamically permissible for a couple to meet in chaperoned, or group environment.
In Islam consent is very important- that is neither women nor men can be married against their will.
Importance of Marriage in Islam Allah has created men and women as company for one another, and so that they can procreate and live in peace and tranquility according to the commandments of Allah and the directions of His Messenger.
Doi Professor and Director, Center for Islamic Legal Studies, Ahmadu Bello University, Zaira, Nigeria.